If you are looking to plan that all important first date in the West Midlands & Birmingham, then this guide is for you. Remember first impressions count so only the best will do.

If you happen to be planning a night out in town then you cannot got wrong with starting at The Floodgate, sporting activities are a perferct way to break the ice, have some fun and relax. Those first few awkward moments can be filled with Baseball, Curling, Tabel Crazy Gold or Car Racing. Just while you both settle into the evening. 

Plan Ahead

The first step to a successful first date is to plan ahead. This means choosing a date activity that you think your date will enjoy and that will allow you to get to know each other. Some good options include:

• Going for coffee or drinks (such as Faculty, Yorks Cafe, or your very own Floodgate)
• Going for a walk or hike (such as the lickey hills, or Woodgate Valley)
• Visiting a museum or art gallery (Cadbury World or Birmingham Museum & Art Gallery)
• Seeing a movie or show (the the Birmingham Hipodrome)
• Playing games or sports (at The Floodgate ofcourse)
• Cooking or baking together (At our next door neighbours Big Bake)
• Going on a scavenger hunt (for graffiti around Digbeth)
• Taking a dance class (the Dance Workshop)

Once you've chosen an activity, it's important to make a reservation or book a spot in advance. This will show your date that you're serious about the date and that you've taken the time to plan it out.

Dress Appropriately

First impressions are important, so it's important to dress appropriately for your first date. This means wearing something that you feel comfortable and confident in, but that is also appropriate for the activity you've chosen. For example, if you're going to a nice restaurant, you'll want to dress up a bit more than if you're going for coffee.

Be On Time

Being on time shows your date that you respect their time and that you're reliable. If you're running late, be sure to let them know as soon as possible.

Be Yourself

The most important thing to remember on a first date is to be yourself. Don't try to be someone you're not, because your date will eventually see through it. Just relax, be yourself, and let your personality shine through.

Listen Actively

One of the best ways to get to know someone is to listen actively. This means paying attention to what they're saying, asking follow-up questions, and showing that you're interested in what they have to say. Don't just wait for your turn to talk!

Ask Questions

In addition to listening actively, it's also important to ask questions on a first date. This shows your date that you're interested in them and that you want to learn more about them. Ask questions about their hobbies, interests, goals, and dreams.

Be Positive

A positive attitude goes a long way on a first date. Smile, laugh, and make eye contact. Show your date that you're happy to be there and that you're enjoying yourself.

Don't Talk About Yourself Too Much

It's important to share about yourself on a first date, but it's also important to listen to your date and not talk about yourself too much. Ask questions and let your date do most of the talking.

End the Date on a Positive Note

When it's time to end the date, be sure to end it on a positive note. Thank your date for a nice time and let them know that you had fun. If you're interested in seeing them again, say so.

Follow Up

If you had a great time on your first date, be sure to follow up with your date the next day or so. Send them a text or email to let them know that you enjoyed their company and that you'd like to see them again.

Following these tips will help you have a successful first date. Just remember to relax, be yourself, and have fun!